Patience is a Virtue (...or the Games People Play)

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Fucked Again...

I was chatting with my buddy and fellow blogger Jason ((http://huntingforsex.blogspot.ca/) and I told him that I was going to put up a post of all the smoking buddies I have on the go right now, but I had an incredible experience Thursday night that I thought I would share with you now. I'll get back to that post real soon Jason. Hang in there!

 

 

 

About a year ago, I started connecting with a very hot guy. Josh and I get together every couple of weeks or so and we have the most amazing sex you can imagine. He's 45, 6'1" tall, about 180 lbs., hairy but clipped (including his back), muscular, shaved head, very nice ass with amazing tan lines (can't you tell?). The most amazing hungry ass you've ever seen. An incredible kisser, passionate, and a great guy. His cock stands totally upright when he's hard, which is almost every moment we are together. I love a cock that stands totally erect and points to the stars. I also love watching a man walking around proudly swinging his upright erection. He's a little cock-shy because he feels his cock doesn't quite measure up. Okay, so I do have a big cock, but for me its not a matter of size all the time. There's so much more to a cock that makes the sexual experience amazing, and really it's technique that counts the most. He has a decent 6.5 inch cut cock with good thickness.

 

Josh loves to bottom, and loves to get pounded for a very long time. Its always hard to know how long you've been fucking while you're in the act, but I took a video of one of our recent sessions, and it was over half an hour of fucking. That's a long time to have your hole drilled, and a long time for me to be drilling! Funny coincidence. As I'm typing this, Josh just texted me to see if I was free to play on Wednesday...  I'll post some video once I download it off my I-Phone. I recently downloaded ios-6 and now I can't access the videos on my phone. Fuckin' I-cloud!

 

Josh and I usually play for about 2 hours because his time is limited and he has to get home to his wife. He and his wife are both professionals and have busy schedules, so its not hard for him to disappear for a few hours, but he has to make it home at a reasonable time. He and his wife have been married for about 10 years, but he tells me their sex lives extinguished about three years ago. Many people have issues with men who cheat on their wives (or husbands), whether with another woman, or with another man. At one time, I used to have a negative opinion of that myself, but everyone's situation is unique. We're all responsible for our own decisions and our life's journeys. In my view, when one partner looses their desire to have sex, they are the one changing the terms of the relationship, so the other partner should be free to satisfy their sexual needs outside of the relationship. I think its unfair for someone to impose celibacy on their partner. Jeff and I are both very clear on the parameters of our relationship, and neither of us want to change our circumstances. I've been in a few relationships and have experienced that inevitable decline in the quality of the sex. The arrangement Josh and I have keeps the sex hot and exciting.

 

We both love to suckle red wine to each other. I think I started that off as I had done it before with other guys. Though of course I don't recall nursing as an infant, there is something nourishing and intimate about being fed directly from someone. Inevitably we kill a bottle of wine sharing it between each other. Its not a big stretch to go from lots of deep kissing to suckling. If you've never tried it, I highly recommend it. We have also started to tell each other "I love you." Its usually in the throws of passion, but it adds a new dimension to the sex we are having. I think we're both looking for a deeper level of connection, and this feels right. I'll be careful not to let things get too complicated.

 

Josh loves to get fucked, but he also loves to deep throat and he really enjoys looking up at me while I watch him choke my cock down his throat. I let him have as much of my cock as he wants. He loves to stroke my cock with his left hand as he sucks me, and his wedding band gets all slobbery as he does it. For some reason that really turns me on. It usually doesn't take long in our sessions for his hole to start needing some attention. I love to eat his hole while he moans in ecstasy. When he's ready, he gets on his knees for me, leans forward, spreads his legs, and I enter him from behind. From there we flip over to our sides, then I get him on his back with his legs akimbo, or have him holding onto his feet knees slightly bent getting pounded hard. I've tried several brands of condoms with him, but have recently landed on the large Trojan Fire and Ice brand. As you fuck with those condoms, they get hotter and hotter, and the feeling on my cock is amazing! I must say that it compensates for the loss of sensation and pleasure a typical condom takes away.

 

In August, I had my yearly HIV test (that had dragged on to nearly two years...)  Though I didn't think the result would be anything but negative, the anxiety over the test is always very high. I went for the anonymous rapid test, and it was negative. I used to indicate on my various online profiles that I "always" practice safer sex. I have recently acknowledged that I have converted to "when appropriate." I'm not going to change my profile descriptor, but I think these days most "always" guys are really "when appropriate" guys. I'm trying to be cautious about it and negotiate bare sex when I have gotten to know someone, they get tested regularly, they are responsible about their status, and the conditions are right. Should I sero-convert, at least I know the treatments that are currently available can manage the illness. Don't get me wrong, I'm being very careful about this. So far I only fuck bare with two guys, and may propose it to a third, but that's it for now. I have also fucked bare with guys who are undetectable, and I'm ok with that. I'll also start going for the test every 6 months.

 

Since after my last test, Josh and I are now having bare sex. I'm the only guy he is currently having sex with, though he's free to be with other guys, as I am. We have agreed to be safe or to use the same prudence with other guys, and if a reason comes up to return to condoms, we will do so. I would rather not cum inside him anyway as I'm more of a slut than he is. I'm also not a big pre-cummer, so risk is reduced. As the top in all other scenarios, the risk for me is also much lower. So that's where we're at.  Thursday night, I asked him for the first time if he would fuck me. I assumed the position he usually likes to start out with: on my knees on the bed, legs apart, leaning forward biting the pillow, him standing behind me. As I may have mentioned in previous posts, I rarely get fucked because I have usually found it uncomfortable. I think deep down I'm a true bottom, but I can't take a big cock pounding me, so I gave that up some time ago. Thursday night though, the conditions felt right for me. The fact that his cock isn't massive encouraged me to offer myself up to him. I must say it was the best fuck I have ever had in my life. Josh took his time as I got used to having him inside me, then I let him work my hole harder. I wanted him to enjoy my hole completely, so as he was getting more vigorous, I told him I wanted him to cum inside me. I usually like to end our sessions by swallowing his load, but this time I wanted him in my ass. He emptied himself inside me, then collapsed on top of me. 

 

In a previous post this July, I mentioned that I arranged to meet up with Fleshlightmouth, famous on x-tube. He has finally finished putting together his video chronicling his summer 2012 tour. Here is the video with a great fanfare opening sequence. My cock is at 5:55 to 7:10. Enjoy his throat - I know I did!



 

 

 

 

I'm not sure if I had previously told you where my profile image comes from. Its from a fresco at the main entrance to a brothel in Pompeii near Napoli Italy. I didn't take the pic, but I have seen it up close and personal. 

Want to Hear a Funny Story?

So I was cruising on my favorite site a month or so ago when I came upon a profile of a guy in a city about an hour's drive away. He's 27, very cute (see pic above), above average cut cock (sorry I can't locate a pic of the cock). He's 6'3" tall, 210 lbs, top. His profile said he's into older guys, so I decided to send him a message. He agree to getting together, but he was looking for a cock sucker who liked things a little rough, throat fucking in particular. I told him I do like it a bit rough, but not too crazy. We tried to get together over the next couple of weeks, but we weren't able to nail it down.  Then one Sunday afternoon this June past, we set it up for later that evening. He sent me his address and indicated that he lived in an apartment behind a laundromat. He said to go to the back and the door to acess his place was there. At a later point in the afternoon, he messaged me to know if I wanted to suck off three guys. Always up for a challenge, I said I would love to. He said with that number of guys, he wouldn't want to play in his place, but we could play in the hallway as it was private with no other traffic to worry about. Because we would be in the hallway, we would have to keep the noise down. I'm generally not a noisy person, but if I'm getting face-fucked hard, I can make loud gagging and choking sounds.

At the appointed time, I drove to the city and rather easily located the place. I parked my car about a block away from the laundromat, and as things appeared in order to that point, I lit up my joint to get relaxed for a thorough throat servicing of three guys.  I was pretty much right on time, which was what I was aiming for if I was going to be the center of attention.  I entered the laundromat, but there didn't appear to be doorway to any apartments or hallways. There were a few people doing their laundry, and one door at the back, but it said "Private/Staff Only." I went back out looking for a rear entrance thinking the apartment might be off a side or back door. Couldn't find anything. Then as I was heading back into the laundromat, a saw a doorway with the correct address number right above it. I tried the door and it was un-locked, opening up to a long hallway.  There was a flight of stairs leading upward to a single apartment door. I waited there for a moment to see what was going on, but no one appeared. I walked up the stairs to the apartment door and could hear some talking. I knocked on the door. "Come in" was the reply.

I opened the door and walked in, greeted by two young men. There was a cute middle-eastern guy, about 5'10" tall, and another guy, not so bad, beard, about 6'1." They were just chilling. I sat on the couch and asked them how they were doing - they were fine. I was thinking that I was glad I had a little toke before arriving because I'm normally a bit shy and the weed tends to relax me and makes me talkative. Trying to make some small talk while we waited for the others to arrive or until someone suggested the party get started, I remarked on the amazing sky-light they had directly above their living room. It was a massive sky-light, probably about 4 feet square, and let in a beautiful light - opened right up to blue sky.  They also really enjoyed their sky-light. Then this beautiful cat came waltzing in to greet me. It was a two-tone dark grey cat, but the striping on it was like that of a tiger. I must say that was one of the most beautiful cats I had ever seen, and I'm not much of a cat person. They said they got it from some friends in my home city. Fancy that I thought to myself.

So we continued with small talk until the taller fellow went into the bedroom. I continued chatting with the younger fellow for a while, though I could hear some voices in the bedroom. I thought that perhaps there were more guys in there, but oddly some of the voices sounded like women. I also noticed ashtrays with cigarette butts on the coffee table, and thought that odd since CanArab told me his place was non-smoking. While I was sitting in the living room chatting to the first fellow, I asked him if he was CanArab from squirt.  He replied, "Huh?"  It was at that moment I knew I was in the wrong place. It was at that moment that I think he too realized that he had no idea who I was, and perhaps this situation was a bit strange. I got up from the couch and said to him that I thought perhaps I was in the wrong place and I would just head out. As I was putting on my shoes, the fellow who went into the bedroom came out and said to me, "Dude - I think you're in the wrong place." Two women poked their heads out from the bedroom to get a look at me. I certainly skiddadled out of there as fast as I could.

 In retrospect, perhaps they were waiting for someone, and the two fellows didn't know what that person they were waiting for looked like; it may been a friend of the two women. I was this unknown stranger until the women came out to confirm they did not know who I was. Since I had arranged this hook-up on squirt, there really wasn't any need for introductions so I didn't introduce myself upon arrival; I was only there to suck their cocks and names and specifics were not important. Other than mentioning squirt to the first guy, I never indicated anything that would lead them to think I was there for sex. So I spent about 10 minutes visiting with them with idle chit-chat before anyone realized I was in the wrong place. I was thankful nothing more weird than that happened, and laughed to myself over the absurdity of the situation.

When I got outside, I went onto my mobile to get some details from CanArab. He was online and I told him I was there, but couldn't find his place. He messaged me back to say that I should knock on the "Private/Staff Entrance" door at the back of the laundromat and he would let me in. I re-entered the laundromat, walked to the back and knocked. A big burly bear of a guy opened the door to this little alcove that CanArab described as a hallway.  He was probably about 40, over 6 feet tall, a bit hefty wearing jeans, military boots, t-shirt and leather vest, bearded guy. Now I knew I was in the right place and that I would be sucking this guy off. I asked him if he'd been there long, he replied a couple of minutes.

CanArab then came out of his apartment in a t-shirt wrapped in a towel. Though all I had to go on was the pic noted above, cropped as it was, I knew that this was the guy. He told me to undress and get on my knees. He un-wrapped himself from the towel, took my head and pushed me down on his cock. I started sucking him as his gorgeous cock started to swell. He told his buddy to take his cock out, which the bear did. He was fairly hard right away, and not a very large cock, but he did have a great pair of nice dangling balls. I was playing with his equipment while still sucking CanArab, when he told me to suck the other guy for a while. I did as I was told, totally naked kneeling on my clothes for a bit of cushioning. The linoleum floor was a bit hard on the knees. I went back onto CanArab's cock, but this time, he wanted to get into some hard throat-thrusting. After several deep plunges, I did croak out from choking on his cock. That probably saved me from an abusive throat pounding, as he relented a bit and just enjoyed a more subdued throat fucking. He sent me back onto the bear for a while, but it didn't take him long before he was shooting cum into my mouth and then all over the place, including all over my clothes. CanArab asked him if wanted to leave now that he had cum, but the guy said he would stay and watch. CanArab then returned to me, grabbed my head for some serious throat fucking. After a while he announced that he was about to cum. His member had swollen to 8 very stiff cut inches, and I do like to have a very big and hard cock shooting freely in my mouth as I'm sucking. Just as he was about to cum, he pulled out and was holding my head down below his cock. I could see streams of jizz shooting along the side of my face, hitting the wall behind me, dripping down my cheek and into my mouth. That was a spectacular cumming I must say. My face was covered in cum from both of those guys. CanArab was wiping his cock from the throat juice and cum, but I asked him if I could wipe my face with the towel. He let me clean up a bit, but my clothes were covered in cum. All I could do was put them on, walk through the laundromat of women washing and folding clothes, and out to my car. That whole sucking scene lasted about half an hour, but man was that ever exciting! Also very funny in its own right.

So I do like to put up various videos and such. Here's a vid of my young man I referenced in my last blog posts in November. As you can see he has an amazingly hairy ass that I was loving! Hope you enjoy. I was thankful I took that video this past March because I played with him one more time after that. He has now re-located quite far away for college...

FleshLightMouth

I was viewing my favorite amateur website xtube one day when I came across a very hot smoking jerk-off video. I sent a message to the guy telling him how much I enjoyed it. Some months later, I received a response thanking me for my message and directing me to check out his blog. Here's the URL if you'd like to check it out for yourself: http://huntingforsex.blogspot.ca  He said in his message that he had deleted that hot video from his xtube account and wasn't sure how to add videos to his blog if he ever decided to re-upload it.  Since I too have a blog on blogspot, I thought I should probably check it out and give him some instructions because I'd love to see his video again ;)  In reviewing my posts, I realized I haven't updated this blog since November of last year!  Let me tell you, I have been up to all my usual shenanigans! I just haven't kept you up on them very well. Ok I'll try and do better.

A few years ago, I sent a message to FleshLightMouth on xtube telling him how much I loved his videos, and asking him if he ever travelled to my area. He responded that he hadn't but he'd be happy to suck my cock some day. I had seen all his videos and I have to tell you its hard to find a guy that has the exact technique that I love - no gag (though gagging can be fun too), lots of stamina, long deep-throating strokes, and the sound a big thick cock makes when its gliding down into a guy's throat. Check out the video below to see exactly what I'm talking about. Be sure to have your sound on.

So this year I was considering what I should do for my summer vacation. I decided I'd like to take a road-trip with a buddy in my new car, and then I thought I should contact FLM to see if he'd be interested in getting together to make a video. He responded that he would, so we arranged a date and time to meet.  My buddy and I made our way about 1,000 km's to our final destination. At the appointed time, I sent my buddy out while my guest was making his way to my hotel.

FLM arrived and we proceeded to prepare for the shoot. He put on the t-shirt he likes to wear which was a dried up mess of cum from all the previous guys he had sucked off. He put on the cap that he uses to partially conceal his identity. We discussed camera angles, lighting, ambient sound (on or off), and the general direction the filming would take. We started with him seated on the floor while I sat back in the hotel wingback chair. We started filming and he immediately began to provide a fantastic fleshlight mouth blowjob. If you've ever tried to film someone sucking on your cock, you know how you have to stay focussed on ensuring you're capturing all the action while enjoying the blowjob you're receiving. It was easy keeping the camera stable leaning my elbows on the arms of the chairs. After about 6 minutes, we cut to the next scene. He asked me to stand so that he could be filmed from that POV. Back to another 6 or so minutes of sucking in that position. I was moving the camera from above to profile shots. We took a little a break and discussed our next scene which would include the money shot. He asked me how I wanted to ejaculate, and I suggested after a bit more throating, he start accelerating his throat action. I would let him know when I was starting to get close, at which point he should start milking my cock with his hand and mouth until I jizzed. Still standing, we resumed filming for scene 3; another deep, sloppy, throat slurping suck. I could feel myself starting to approach orgasm, and signalled that to FLM through increased breathing rate and the usual "uhhh, uhhh, uhhhh..."  He went to milking with his hand and mouth as I shot all over him and his cum splattered t-shirt.  Afterwards we reviewed the final scene on his cam, and it was a little shaky. Turns out the cam didn't have a stabilizer. Nevertheless it was pretty good. FLM said he would edit something together and post it after his return from his vacation. Once its up I'll post a copy of it here for you all.